February 12, 2010

stop i-vawa

Filed under: Uncategorized — Fighting Legal Terror @ 12:14 pm

Friends, My GOD!!! This is much more dangerous than I was thinking…Many women organizations across world are pushing for this in a co-ordinate way…Draft version of the bill does not say a word about violence against MEN. Believe me we need to mark our strong protest. I am sure Gorky and other senior members are chalking out a strategy for all of us but it is the duty and responsibility of each of us to contribute and do our bit to stop this. Before discussing further please understand the seriousness of the problem. Just Google I-VAWA and you know they have already done planning to…

…Finish MEN…

…Make MEN slave…

…To make further gender biased laws…

…Accelerate the process of misuse…

So what we need to do?

I am spending some time on it to come up with simple ways for our members to participate and mark our protest…

They are…

  • Poll – One initiative is open on http://bhavyafoundation.org/
  • Send protest letters
  • Send protest emails
  • Each blog of all members will host protest letters
  • Write comments for each article
  • Start collecting mass signatures against it. We will do it tomorrow at Candle Light Protest
  • All websites to put flash news (blinking) on the home page


Guys believe me, at first I did not understood the seriousness of the problem. If this bill is passed then it is going to be disaster.


Why We Must Stop CEDAW and I-VAWA

Senator Joe Biden will soon be introducing two bills that, if passed, will worsen our domestic violence

programs and lead to family break-up:


CEDAW is a treaty promoted by the United Nations. CEDAW stands for the Convention on the Elimination of

All Forms of Discrimination Against Women. General Recommendation #19 of CEDAW addresses Violence

Against Women. The recommendation does not say anything about violence against men:


If CEDAW is ratified by the Senate, then a U.N. compliance committee would be empowered to review a broad

range of U.S. domestic laws and request that changes be made. Passage of CEDAW would make it more

difficult to reform the Violence Against Women Act.

2. International Violence Against Women Act

Senator Biden’s companion bill is the International Violence Against Women Act – I-VAWA for short. IVAWA

is based on a one-sided survey by the World Health Organization that didn’t bother assess male


I-VAWA would be used to funnel U.S. taxpayer money to CEDAW-mandated programs around the world.

More information about I-VAWA is available from the Family Violence Prevention Fund:


What Can I Do to Stop CEDAW and I-VAWA?

CEDAW and I-VAWA are based on the myth that only men commit domestic violence and only women are

victims. But research paints a very different picture: women are at least as likely as men to engage in partner

abuse: http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID41H3a.pdf

RADAR’s Special Reports document how domestic violence programs in the United States violate the civil

liberties of the falsely-accused, discriminate against many victims of abuse, weaken families, and harm children.

Plus, these programs are ineffective in stopping abuse and may actually place victims at greater risk of violence.

CEDAW and I-VAWA are two bills with innocent-sounding names that would break up families, harm children,

and worsen the injustices of the current system. Help get the truth out about the destructive effects of CEDAW

and I-VAWA: http://www.mediaradar.org/docs/RADARflyer-CEDAW-and-IVAWA.pdf

And contact your elected officials today. Tell them to protect families and children. Tell them to “Vote

‘No’ on CEDAW and I-VAWA.”

Actual bill…







Study show MEN are victims of DV


VAWA Harms African-American Communities

VAWA Harms African-American Communities




December 21, 2009


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Effects of Tax Evasion Petition

Filed under: Effects of Tax Evasion Petition — Fighting Legal Terror @ 2:28 pm


Hi All,

As I had repeatedly suggested, that one should resort to filing a Tax Evasion Petition against the in-laws. I have successfully done it with good results. Here is a brief about it.

I filed a petition in June 2008. – No results

I filed another petition in August 2008, with a rider that I would be constrained to file an RTI. I got a reply on 3rd September asking me to deposit Rs. 100/- towards the copies of the investigation and registry charges.

I then checked with me sources in the family of my out-laws. And here is the version I got.

First Reaction of my Father-out-law to Income Tax Officer: Humne to mandir mein shaadi ki thi, jhoot bolta hai ki humne dahej diya. Changed immediately to, mere bete ne paise lagaaye the shaadi mein. Changed in the date at Income Tax Office, “Rishtedaaro ne gifts diye the.” And the Income Tax Department has her sworn affidavit attached with my complaint, which clearly states that she is fully dependent on her father’s meagre pension and she does not have the help of any other family member. I don’t have knowledge on what more transpired at Income Tax office, for which I am waiting for the response from Income Tax.

Reaction of my Brother-out-law on this: B&*%tard (No one had seen him so angry ever), Maine aapko bola tha usko jyada mat chedo. Meri naukri bhi khaayega. Mera naam “BILKUL” mat lena ki maine paise lagaye the shaadi mein.

Question of my lovely 498a wife: Jail to nahi jaana padega inko? Ab kya kare? Yahan to 5 lakh rupaye dene padenge? Agar yahan kah de ki kuch nahi diya to kya usko pata chal jaayega? Kya wo yaha ke paper apne case mein use kar sakta hai?

Other Relatives: Hamara naam mat lena.

The house descended in gloom and they did not cook the meal till 11PM that day.

The Income Tax Department has issued notice to him and given him 4 weeks to file a reply. I don’t know when the notice was issued but I know for sure that he has hired a good (read expensive) Income Tax Lawyer, who has categorically told him that my father-out-law would have to pay penalty and he can only try to minimize the damage.

Other effects of the same:

A> I saw my father-out-law yesterday in court. Sitting alone on the bench. He had lost a lot of weight and was visibly shaken. Was not able to make eye-contact with me. I see this in clear contrast of 25 people on their side Vs 2 of us defending ourselves in Police Station. And yesterday the person (my respected uncle) who had accomapnied me in Police Station was still with me but his family had deserted him.

B> I don’t take it as a conclusive victory but a butteresed compliment that her lawyer met me with lot of respect and mentioned, “mujhe tera vakeel hona chahiye tha, tu bahut mehnat karta hai”. And also, “Bahut tez hai bhai. Mein to inko kah raha hoon ab bhi samjhauta kar lo”

What my lovely 498a wife has got till now in last eight months:

> False ego boost by seeing me in custody for 4 days.
> False claims which could not enable them to get household items/ jewellary/ money from me, but became judicial proof that they laid false claim on my property.
> Zero Maintenance amount till now, she might get some on next date i.e. 22nd of this month only.
> Possibility (Surity for me) that many other cases are coming her way/ her family’s way. One of them would surely be for lying on sworn affidavit.
> Loss of family friends and near complete social boycott.

Amidst all of this, the only factor which still bothers me is that I still don’t get to meet my child despite repeated trials and applications. The day I would meet him, I would surely say once again.



Shonee Kapoor

PS: This post is to bolster the spirits of the people in similar situation as me. I still don’t want to instigate anyone in filing false petitions. Truth alone should suffice. And she levelled allegations on you is an accepted truth.

PS1: FM was playing this song right now, which I found hilarious while writing this mail;
Jhoot bole kauva kaate, kaale kauve se dariyo.
Tu maayke chali jaayegi mein duja byah rachaunga,
mein dooja byah rachaunga, Mein teri Sautan launga tum dekhti rahiyo.

PPS: I have done this activity in complete legal way, without paying anyone a single penny. I advise all of you to shun giving money in courts/ police/ other agencies to meet the desired objectives. Your application should carry enough weight for you to succeed.

November 13, 2009

498a helpline

Filed under: Uncategorized — Fighting Legal Terror @ 10:16 am

Helpline  for advice, help and strategy to fight the misuse of 498a, DV Act, Divorce, Child custody, RCR, transfer petition, bail, CrPc 125, Maintenance etc

State District Name Contact email
All-over-India Bangalore Suresh P 09880141531 psuresh29@yahoo.com
Andhra Pradesh Hyderabad Venkuby Rao 09963399235  
Kurnool Uday R 09731711552 utathi@yahoo.com
Tirupati Rajesh 09945813876  
Anantapur Lokesh 09900570087  
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Assam   Mrs. Gogoi 09435548142  
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Helpline 09871763056  
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JK   Vijay 09906907950 vijaiksingh@gmail.com
Karnataka Bangalore Suresh P 09880141531 psuresh29@yahoo.com
Mahesh M 09845448472 mamah85@yahoo.com
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Dharwad Satish 09900293628  
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Chennai Manoj 09840324551  
Suresh 09941012958  
Kalai 09445119559  
Coimbatore Padmanaban 09790019658  
UP Lucknow Yaksh 09793530430  
USA New Jersey Shankar Reddy 201-772-6688  
UK & Europe   Hardik Mehta 0044-7886 582 816 hardikm007@gmail.com


Dear Friends,

We need Volunteers to manage and handle 498a/DV victim calls in different Cities/State. We get many calls per day from 498a/DV victims from various part of the country. We believe victims can get effective help from local guys in his city. Request you to send your contact number which will be published on below websites. Those ready to help victims please mail their contact details (mobile number, email and city) to psuresh29@yahoo.com or mamah85@yahoo.com


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